Accordingly, it is usually when people use the word “valid” in that sense, they mean that it’s in some sense normal, or understandable. That there’s a natural cause or explanation for whatever they’re claiming is “valid” that they believe is true. This use of the word is not a precise, formal, or technical use.
In my way of observation, some of us, or should I say, most of us are looking for validation. Well, honestly, I am also looking into it. Yeah, admitted, I felt that people around me, invalidate my feelings, and reasons. As in, I always think that they will never really understand me.
Sometimes we experienced being criticized by others, for not figuring out who we truly are. They’ll just judge you as if they became witnesses and part of our life. In fact, that’s how the world revolves most of the time. The judgemental world as its finest! So that we are always seeking validity, are we enough?
Above all, I realized something that we need to know, if we are all looking for validation, here it is. We are enough, thousand times enough.
If we feel like our world is too dark and we need a little sunshine, we can have some of the others’ light.
P. S others-the person/s we truly trust and love. No man is an island.
-GSL.

Relax, you are valid.
